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      <image:caption>When your relationship is in trouble, simple worksheets and gimmicky communication strategies aren’t going to save it. Your challenges and needs go deeper than that. You’ve already sought advice from friends. Although you appreciate their support, you don’t need more people to side against your partner. You need a professional who is on your side as a couple, and someone who knows how to help you move forward together. You need help to reconnect, heal, and feel like true partners again. Emotionally Focused Therapy addresses the root causes of disconnection and miscommunication in relationships. You don’t want to waste time addressing symptoms - you want to get to the core issues that can make or break your relationship. EFT is arguably the most empirically founded model of couples therapy to date. Research demonstrates that 70% of couples who complete EFT recover from marital distress, and 90% have significant improvement. These improvements are shown to be long-term with little regression. This compares to a very low 35% recovery rate and high rates of relapse/regression for traditional behavioral therapies in couples therapy. What’s really cool is that studies also show that EFT can be effective in reducing symptoms of PTSD and depression when these issues occur alongside marital distress.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The Real Needs in Couples Relationships: All of us come into this world needing the security of loving relationships. This need for safe emotional connection is lifelong - it stays with us from the cradle to the grave. When you fear that your partner isn’t there for you, that you don’t really matter, or that you can’t turn to him/her for comfort and strength, your relationship can easily slip into negative patterns that reinforce your fears and your disconnection. The core of pain, conflict, and distance that you’re experiencing likely comes from your answer to these questions: Are you there for me? Are we in this together? Am I important to you? Can I turn to you for comfort and strength? If I am hurting or afraid, will you come to me? Do you accept and value me for who I am? Can I relax and be my real self with you? Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can help you get right to the heart of the matter - bringing back the acceptance, belonging, comfort, and connection that you want to feel with your partner. How can EFT help us save our marriage? Emotionally Focused Therapy helps you get unstuck from negative patterns and build secure bonds of love and trust. As this happens, you build confidence that you can truly count on each other. You both come to trust each other to “be there” during both the joyful and the difficult moments of life. In this way, EFT helps you create a safe haven within your relationship: Your relationship can become a place where each of you feels deeply valued. Both of you will learn to confidently turn to each other for comfort and strength You’ll gain a solid sense of partnership where you work together to address challenges. Your sense of true belonging will increase as your relationship becomes a place where you are unafraid to be yourself. With the help of Emotionally Focused Therapy, you can create a connection that becomes the foundation for a lifetime of love.</image:caption>
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